原生家庭对人的影响不能绝对化，也不能把问题简单化

Core Viewpoint - The influence of the family of origin on individuals is complex and cannot be simplified, as it involves not only parental impact but also peer and ancestral influences [1][5][6]. Group 1: Psychological Theories and Cultural Context - The mainstream psychological theories in China have historically been based on Western perspectives, with many popular psychology books using Chinese cases to illustrate these theories [1]. - Yang Wensheng has been developing a psychological counseling theory more suited to Chinese culture, culminating in the publication of "The Methods and Arts of Short-term Psychological Counseling: The World of Two-Element Psychological Therapy" [1][16]. Group 2: Case Studies and Examples - An example from "The Book of Yan" illustrates successful psychological guidance, where a dream interpretation led to a positive outcome for a king suffering from illness [3]. - Yang Wensheng categorizes issues stemming from the family of origin into five types: excessive love, insufficient love, harsh love, indulgent love, and fragile love [5]. Group 3: Perspectives on Family Influence - There are differing academic views on the impact of the family of origin, with some arguing that peer influence is more significant than parental influence during childhood [5]. - Yang acknowledges the undeniable influence of the family of origin but emphasizes that it should not be viewed as an absolute determinant of one's psychological state [6]. Group 4: Authenticity of Narratives - Yang highlights the importance of the authenticity of individuals' narratives regarding their family backgrounds, noting that some recollections may be distorted or fabricated [7]. - He stresses that no family is perfect and that individuals must take responsibility for their lives rather than attributing all issues to their family of origin [7][8]. Group 5: Professional Limitations in Counseling - The concept of "professional violence" in psychological counseling refers to the potential harm caused by counselors who rigidly apply theories without considering individual feedback [9][11]. - Yang emphasizes the need for counselors to remain humble and open to feedback, recognizing their own limitations and the importance of adapting their approach based on client responses [11][12]. Group 6: Common Psychological Issues Among Students - The psychological issues faced by elite students are often similar to those of the general population, including academic pressure, interpersonal relationships, and emotional challenges [12][13]. - Yang notes a shift in the nature of these issues over the years, with an increase in anxiety and depression among students due to modern communication methods and societal expectations [12]. Group 7: Integration of Life Wisdom - Yang argues that life wisdom and common sense should not be undervalued in psychological counseling, as they provide essential insights into human behavior and relationships [14]. - He shares personal experiences that shaped his understanding of human interactions, emphasizing the importance of treating everyone as equals, regardless of their social status [14].