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Group 1 - The core argument of the article emphasizes that correction-based education methods, such as reasoning, yelling, and emotional manipulation, are ineffective and can be harmful to children's development [2][10]. - Parents often impose their standards on children, leading to a cycle of correction that can foster feelings of inadequacy in children [11][12]. - The article highlights the psychological principle that children are more likely to internalize negative feedback, which can affect their self-esteem and confidence [8][12]. Group 2 - The article suggests replacing negative feedback with positive reinforcement, advocating for methods like the "advantage accumulation education method" to encourage children [14][15][27]. - It discusses the importance of fostering intrinsic motivation in children by addressing their needs for autonomy, competence, and connection [18][20][25]. - The article concludes that parents should practice self-discipline by refraining from constant correction and instead focus on guiding children through positive feedback and support [27].