Why do we lie about money? | Norah Chanda Kalaluka | TEDxLusaka

Key Observations on Financial Infidelity and Relationships - Financial infidelity, defined as deceit regarding finances, is increasingly common in relationships [4][6] - Financial infidelity is a symptom, with the lack of financial intimacy being the root cause [17] - Money-related lies are often driven by fear, shame, control, and sometimes love [10] Impact and Consequences - Financial secrets can lead to feelings of betrayal and erode trust within relationships [5][15] - Hidden loans have caused marriages to fall apart, while honesty can lead to healing [19] - Unresolved differences in money personalities can turn money into a battlefield in relationships [14] Solutions and Recommendations - Understanding one's money personality is the first step towards financial transparency [18] - Early and frequent communication about finances is crucial, scheduling regular money dates [18] - Creating a shared financial plan, including budgeting, building, and investing together, is essential [18]