Foundations | Laetitia Ruoyun Lim | TEDxITE College West

Societal Values and Meritocracy - Singaporean society emphasizes speed, efficiency, and results, leading to a culture where falling behind equates to becoming irrelevant [2] - The pursuit of external validation and recognition is deeply ingrained, with self-worth often tied to achievements and results praised in a meritocratic system [9][11] - The meritocratic system rewards "seen effort," creating pressure to maintain unsustainable lifestyles to stay relevant [9][11] Personal Growth and Redefining Success - The speaker initially prioritized academic success and external validation, feeling like "nothing" if not recognized by important figures [4][5] - A shift in perspective occurred through interactions with individuals in the background, such as the drink stall auntie and the cleaning uncle, leading to an understanding of the value of presence and consistency [7][8] - The speaker learned to slow down, let go of rigid plans, and stop needing to be seen, finding value in the quiet moments and the contributions of those often overlooked [6][7] Foundations and Character - True character is built in quiet, invisible moments, emphasizing that not everything needs to be seen to be valuable [13][14] - Foundations are built in the background, unseen but essential, suggesting that who one is in private shapes who one becomes in public [13][15] - Growth and refinement occur in the quiet, unnoticed work, highlighting the importance of the moments before results and recognition [16][17]