Gaining Aura By Looking at it | Philippe Okwe | TEDxAga Khan HS Kampala Youth

Core Argument - The presentation explores the concept of "aura" as a measure of coolness, confidence, and respect, suggesting it's something that can be gained or lost [2] - It argues that focusing on measuring and competing for "aura" can lead to negative consequences, such as arrogance or low self-esteem, with a significant percentage (approximately 85%) of adults and teenagers experiencing low self-esteem [6][8] - The presentation advocates for true confidence, which involves doing what one wants without worrying about others' opinions or potential failures [16] Practical Application - The presentation suggests that experiencing humiliation and realizing one is okay can help escape the pressure of seeking external validation [17] - It encourages individuals to pursue new hobbies, try new styles, and engage with new people without concern for gaining or losing "aura" [18] - The presentation emphasizes that confidence is not about believing in success but about being comfortable with failure [18]