How to Become Someone You’re Proud Of | Tom Kelly

Core Idea - Legacy is not a future achievement but the ongoing story told by daily decisions [4][14] - Intentional choices shape identity and build pride, while autopilot leads to unintended outcomes [5][6] - The "Legacy by Design" method involves three stages: mirror, megaphone, and model [6] Three Stages of Legacy by Design - Mirror: Act in accordance with the desired identity, proving it through choices [7][8] - Megaphone: Share personal stories to influence others and reinforce personal beliefs [9][10] - Model: Lead by example, recognizing that personal actions inspire and empower others [11][12] Practical Application - Choose three words daily to define the desired self and make decisions aligned with those words [7][14] - Share personal stories to inspire others and reinforce personal beliefs [9][10] - Recognize that seemingly private decisions have a public impact, influencing others [12] Impact and Influence - Small decisions and actions have a significant impact on personal legacy and the lives of others [3][10] - Sharing personal stories can inspire others to make different decisions [10] - Personal courage can empower others to pursue change [11][13]