Using Questions to Build Real Connection in an Age of Loneliness | Amber Johnson | TEDxWilmette

Main Argument - The core issue is an epidemic of loneliness and a chronic lack of understanding in relationships and society [2][13] - The solution is to ask better questions to strengthen connections and build stronger relationships [5][6][23] Questioning Techniques - Cut predictable questions that elicit scripted responses [7][8][12] - Ask questions that seek understanding, focusing on feelings rather than just facts [12][14][17] - Seek to understand before being understood, especially in polarized situations [19][21] Impact and Application - Asking better questions can renew a sense of connection and combat loneliness [5][22] - This approach is vital for a healthy society, as loneliness and misunderstanding fuel mistrust and conspiracy theories [19] - Applying these techniques can improve relationships with family, friends, and even in professional settings [16][17][22]