Turning Fertility Struggle into Self-Discovery | Lakia Holmes | TEDxUnion Women

What is it? I asked. I'd just given birth and it seemed like everyone in the delivery room had forgotten that I didn't know what I was having. I'd gone through a very long IVF process that resulted in four embryos, two boys, two girls. My doctor asked me if I wanted to choose the gender and I said no, just go with the strongest one. God's will be done. It's a girl. Someone shouted a girl. And it was at that moment I wish I had a mirror, not to watch the baby as it came out, but to see the look on my face an ...