[music] [applause] [music] What do you not want people to know about you. This was a question that was posed to me at a men's group a few months ago. Preparing for this talk, I attended as many groups as I could, often leading a few along the way to learn about what other men might be struggling with.This question is what taught me the most. So, how would you answer this question. Your answer might change depending on who you're answering it to, but how would you answer this question in front of a group of ...

What do you call a man who's crying alone in his room at 2:00 a.m. in the morning with no one to call just because he's been taught that emotions, even the mere thought of it makes him weak, less of a man. What would you call him? The world might call him just another man. Some people in the crowd might refer to him as a coward, but I would say that he is forgotten. Forgotten not just by society, but rather the systems put in place that failed to catch him when he fell. Because silence isn't just a lack of ...