What if I told you you look old. Yeah, you you look old today. You might be confused, thinking, "What? Who me?" If so, you're not alone because these were the exact words my husband said to me.I was perplexed, especially when I grew up with the expression, "Black don't crack." For those who are unfamiliar, this is an expression we use in the black community to suggest that we, especially black women, tend to defy the laws of aging. It was 6:00 a. m., my 40th birthday, only a few months away, and I realized ...