It's not quite the heroic entry I'd imagined at the start of this talk, but hopefully one day when I look back, it all makes sense. Have you ever noticed how life only really makes sense when we look back. Because I know I have.And I spent a large chunk of my life trying to figure out, well, how do we live with clarity in the moment then. And I think that's why a lot of people are so obsessed with control. But for me, this control thing, it's never really fit.I think it's a lie we tell ourselves to give the ...