要让这种社交模式健康地持续下去，关键在于守护"真诚分享、共同成长"的初衷。参与者需要共同 维护开放、互助的氛围，避免其异化为另一种形式的内卷竞争或功利性人脉拓展。平台与社区组织者可 适度引导，建立良性规则，帮助大家聚焦内容、深入讨论。从社会层面来看，这种自发、互助的学习形 式值得关注和鼓励，它是终身学习与社区活力的生动体现。(本文来源：经济日报 作者：刘莉) 往深处想，这其实是对自我能力的主动投资。当下的就业市场变化迅速，对个人的综合能力提出更 高要求。"技能社交"就像是年轻人自主搭建的学习平台，它鼓励大家把兴趣变成可以互相切磋、彼此借 鉴的实用本领，通过一次次聚会和练习，持续为个人能力"添砖加瓦"。 (责任编辑：年巍) 如今，一种以分享特长、交换知识为核心的新社交方式正在年轻人中流行起来。人们通过线上召 集、线下见面的形式，围绕摄影、编程、乐器甚至投资分析等具体技能，组成小组，结伴学习。这种形 式借鉴了海外职场中常见的"Coffee Chat"(喝咖啡聊天)，但少了些功利色彩，更多是"以技会友"，在松 弛的氛围中实现共同成长。它将学习、交友与个人成长融合在一起，为年轻人创造了一个既能提升自 己，又能拓展人脉 ...

Core Insights - The article discusses the rising trend of "Coffee Chat" as a social networking method among young people in China, focusing on skill and information exchange [2][4][11] Group 1: Concept of "Skill Exchange" - "Coffee Chat" is a social method originally common in overseas workplaces, now gaining popularity among young people in China for skill and information exchange [2][4] - Participants share their skill sets on social media, facilitating one-on-one or group exchanges of various skills, such as language, photography, and industry insights [2][4] - The exchanges are goal-oriented, emphasizing mutual benefit rather than age or background [2][4] Group 2: Personal Experiences - A university student, Li Xiang, initiates a "Coffee Chat" with a short video entrepreneur, leading to valuable industry insights and an invitation to join an online creator community [4][5][11] - Freelancer Song Kairui has completed 17 skill exchanges, gaining insights into various fields through conversations in coffee shops [6][8] - PhD student Pan Menghan engages in skill exchange to learn outdoor activities while sharing her expertise in data analysis and academic writing [6][7] Group 3: Challenges and Adjustments - Not all exchanges are successful; for instance, employee Sun Ying ends a conversation with a student due to a lack of clear goals and depth in discussion [9][10] - Sun Ying emphasizes the importance of mutual value in skill exchanges and adjusts her approach by requiring clearer self-introductions and goals from participants [10] - Establishing boundaries and clear objectives is crucial for meaningful and lasting connections in skill socializing [10][11]