Jennifer Finney Boylan's latest memoi Cleavage, Men, Women, and the Space Between Us was named with careful intention. Finney Boylan explains the title at the very end in the epilogue. Quote, one of the stranger aspects of the word cleavage is that it contains, its definition contains its own opposite, which is to say that to cleave means to divide, to split something in half, like the way gender divides humans or the way politics divides a country. But to cleave also means to stick to or to adhere close to ...