人人都爱谈论“性癖”，却无法直面这6个问题

Group 1 - The article discusses the concept of "sexual self" and its importance in understanding individual sexual preferences and experiences [4][9] - It highlights that individuals often have a better understanding of what they like sexually (60%) compared to what they dislike (20%) in long-term relationships [5] - The article emphasizes the complexity of sexual self, which includes aspects like sexual self-esteem, sexual depression, and sexual preoccupation [10][11] Group 2 - The research indicates that attachment styles significantly influence sexual self-concept, with secure attachment correlating with higher sexual self-esteem and satisfaction [13][25] - It notes that anxious attachment styles lead to higher sexual anxiety and lower sexual self-esteem, often resulting in negative sexual behaviors [17][19] - Avoidant attachment styles are associated with high sexual preoccupation but low intimacy, leading to lower sexual satisfaction in long-term relationships [22] Group 3 - The article introduces a tool called "sexual self-awareness map" to help individuals explore their sexual self across six dimensions [28][29] - It suggests that understanding cultural influences on sexuality can empower individuals to make conscious choices about their sexual experiences [30] - The article concludes that exploring one's sexual self can shift the focus from being sexualized to self-pleasure and enjoyment [34]