Core Insights - The research highlights a significant shift in the marriage and fertility trends among urban youth in China, indicating a growing trend of late marriage and reluctance to marry [2][39][63] - The average ideal marriage age for youth in major cities like Beijing, Shanghai, and Guangzhou is now 31.5 years, aligning closely with countries known for low fertility rates [6][7] - The changing values surrounding marriage reflect a broader societal transformation, where marriage is increasingly viewed as a personal choice rather than a societal obligation [16][17] Group 1: Marriage Trends - The average age of first marriage has increased significantly since 2010, with nearly a 4-year rise for both genders [5][6] - The rise in the lifetime unmarried rate and declining birth rates are closely linked to the postponement of marriage [7][11] - Youth today express a belief that marriage is optional, with nearly 70% agreeing that marriage is a personal choice [16][17] Group 2: Changing Attitudes - There is a notable decline in the expectation that love is a prerequisite for marriage, with a significant increase in those willing to marry without love if other criteria are met [21][24] - The perception of dating and marriage as separate entities has gained traction, with over 40% of youth agreeing that dating does not necessarily lead to marriage [25][24] - Parental influence on marriage decisions has increased, with many youth valuing parental approval in their relationship choices [27][34] Group 3: Challenges and Pressures - Many urban youth report a lack of confidence in finding a suitable partner, with over 40% expressing doubts about their ability to secure a satisfactory marriage [37][39] - The pressures of modern life, including high living costs and the responsibilities of marriage and parenthood, contribute to a sense of helplessness among youth [54][56] - The concept of "lazy marriage" reflects a rational choice influenced by changing marriage values and structural conflicts faced by young people [39][63] Group 4: Societal Context - The phenomenon of "quarter-life crisis" is prevalent among youth, characterized by anxiety and uncertainty about their future, including marriage [72][74] - The cultural context in East Asia, particularly the lack of social networks outside of family, exacerbates feelings of isolation and dependency on parental support [76][75] - The traditional family structure continues to exert a strong influence, providing both support and constraints on youth's marriage decisions [56][58]
今天的年轻人为何“懒婚”？
Hu Xiu·2025-05-13 05:37