能接受“有条件的爱”，是心智成熟的标志之一

Group 1 - The concept of "unconditional love" is primarily associated with the early stages of life, where infants rely entirely on caregivers for their needs, creating a one-sided relationship [2][3] - If an individual does not receive sufficient unconditional love in their early life, they may continue to seek it throughout their life, leading to persistent disappointment [3][4] - The desire for unconditional love may stem from a lack of self-worth, prompting individuals to reflect on past experiences that may be holding them back [4] Group 2 - The realization that parental love is conditional can lead to feelings of despair and uncertainty about the existence of unconditional love elsewhere [5][6][7] - Understanding that love is inherently conditional can provide a deeper insight into relationships, where love fluctuates based on actions and circumstances [7][9] - The notion that love requires certain conditions does not negate its value; rather, it highlights the complexity and rarity of love [10][18] Group 3 - The idea of "unconditional love" is often idealized and may not exist in reality, as even parents have limitations in their ability to provide such love [17][18] - The pursuit of unconditional love can be a motivating factor for individuals to strive for better relationships and personal growth [19][20] - Self-love, defined as loving one's existence rather than achievements, is emphasized as a crucial aspect of personal well-being [21][22][23]