“如果不是真的喜欢，谁愿意做舔狗呢？”

Group 1 - The cost of love is increasing, leading many young people to hesitate before pursuing romantic relationships, as love is being demystified in this era [1] - Young people prioritize material needs and do not believe in the idea that love alone is sufficient; they fear the emotional and time investments required in relationships [1] - Despite their hesitations, young people still harbor curiosity and fantasies about love, seeking passion, care, and appreciation in intimate relationships [1] Group 2 - The term "舔狗" (literally "licking dog") refers to individuals who excessively flatter or please their romantic interests without reciprocation, which is viewed negatively by today's youth [2][3] - Young people believe that rational behavior in love involves knowing when to stop pursuing someone who shows no interest, contrasting with the past where such persistence was seen as romantic [2][3] Group 3 - The concept of "恋爱脑" (literally "love brain") describes a mindset where individuals prioritize love above all else, often at the expense of personal growth and rational decision-making [4][5] - Young people are increasingly wary of becoming "恋爱脑," as they associate it with losing personal freedom and autonomy in relationships [5][6] Group 4 - The perception of love among young people has shifted to a more negative view, with many believing that the unpredictability and low return on emotional investment make love not worth pursuing [7] - Young individuals often calculate the costs and benefits of emotional investments, leading to a tendency to avoid relationships that do not offer clear returns [7] Group 5 - Economic pressures play a significant role in young people's reluctance to engage in romantic relationships, as dating is often associated with financial burdens [13][14] - The expectation that men should spend money on dates and gifts has created a competitive environment, leading to feelings of inadequacy among young men [14][15] Group 6 - Young women often face emotional and financial risks in relationships, particularly when they invest in their partners' success without receiving equal support in return [15][16] - The trend of splitting expenses (AA system) in relationships has led to discussions about financial contributions and expectations, often resulting in dissatisfaction [16] Group 7 - The desire for love remains strong among young people, but they often seek it in less traditional forms, such as virtual relationships or reality TV shows, which allow them to experience love without the associated risks [20][21] - Reality dating shows provide a way for young people to engage with romantic narratives while maintaining emotional distance, serving as a substitute for real-life relationships [21] Group 8 - The rise of "甜宠剧" (sweet pet dramas) reflects young people's longing for idealized love stories, offering an escape from the complexities of real relationships [22][23] - These dramas create a fantasy world where love is uncomplicated and fulfilling, contrasting sharply with the challenges faced in actual romantic encounters [22][23] Group 9 - The concept of "麦当劳化" (McDonaldization of love) suggests that young people are seeking to standardize and rationalize their romantic experiences, making love more predictable and manageable [32][33] - Young individuals prefer measurable criteria for choosing partners and efficient processes for dating, reflecting a desire for control and reduced emotional risk in relationships [32][33]