买一天男友：Cos委托与年轻人的情感困局

Core Insights - A new emotional consumption model called "Cos委托" is emerging among young women, where they pay to hire Coser (usually female) to role-play as virtual game "lovers" for a carefully designed date [1][21] - This model reflects a pursuit of ideal intimate relationships and self-affirmation in a world where maintaining real-life relationships has become increasingly costly [1][21] Group 1: Emotional Consumption Model - "Cos委托" allows individuals (referred to as "单主") to hire female Cosers to embody male characters from otome games for a day [5][21] - The pricing for these services varies widely, ranging from 300 to 2000 yuan for a full day, with an average service duration of six to eight hours [9][21] - The emotional value derived from these experiences often outweighs the financial costs for participants, with some individuals spending over 100,000 yuan on such services [9][21] Group 2: Participant Experiences - Participants often report feelings of hope and emotional fulfillment after these experiences, which can help alleviate feelings of loneliness and despair [17][21] - The interactions during these dates are designed to simulate genuine romantic experiences, with Cosers paying close attention to the emotional needs of their clients [19][21] - Many participants express that the companionship provided during these dates is more valuable than the extravagant experiences themselves [20][21] Group 3: Industry Dynamics - The industry is still relatively niche, with most Cosers initially engaging in this work part-time or as a hobby before transitioning to paid services [5][21] - As the industry grows, issues such as pricing disputes and quality of service have emerged, leading to a rise in consumer complaints and "挂条" (warning notes) on social media platforms [25][29] - The majority of Cosers are female, and there is a notable preference among female clients for female Cosers due to safety concerns and a better understanding of emotional needs [29][21]