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Stop Chasing, Start Attracting: How Desperation Kills Deals
Garry Tan· 2025-07-09 15:01
Key Principles for Founders - Desperation repels investors and others, signaling risk [5] - Contentment attracts capital and opportunities, as founders building independently signal confidence [6] - Handling rejection with resilience demonstrates potential for success [6] Strategies for Success - Focus on building something undeniable to attract helpers and funding organically [9][10] - Detachment, not as passivity but as inward power, allows opportunities to arise [11] - Embrace the present and stop chasing future outcomes to create space for opportunities [12] - Believe in a real chance of success, even if not 100% certain [8] Mindset and Action - Avoid performative actions and focus on real calm and progress [7] - Turn dreams into tangible code or hardware [14] - Look inward for design space, code, character, and conviction [13]
You Have To Risk Rejection
Success Factors - Economic and romantic success requires resilience and persistence in the face of rejection [1] - Individuals who consistently ask for opportunities (money, jobs, dates) are more likely to achieve greater wealth and find a higher-quality partner [1] Risk Management - Fearlessness in pursuing opportunities is crucial for outperforming peers [1]