Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the challenges parents face during their children's rebellious teenage years, emphasizing the need for understanding and effective communication to navigate this phase successfully [4][12]. Group 1: Understanding Adolescence - Adolescence is characterized by emotional instability, conflicts with family, and a desire for independence, which can lead to rebellious behavior [5][6]. - The underlying cause of this rebellion is often the difficulties children face in adapting to changes in their lives, leading them to express their struggles through defiance [5][10]. Group 2: Parental Misunderstandings - Many parents fail to recognize the psychological changes their children undergo during adolescence, often responding with strict control, which exacerbates the rebellion [7][10]. - The "Hercules Effect" illustrates that the more parents impose control, the more rebellious the child becomes, leading to increased family conflict [8][10]. Group 3: Strategies for Parents - Respecting children's autonomy is crucial; parents should avoid being overly controlling and recognize their children as independent individuals [13][14]. - Effective communication should be approached with warmth and understanding, as harsh criticism can lead to further resistance from the child [15][17]. - The "sandwich method" of communication is recommended, where parents first acknowledge the child's strengths, then provide constructive criticism, and finally reaffirm their support [21][25].