Main Argument - The prevalent "formula" for college admissions (perfect GPA, numerous AP classes, leadership roles, and volunteer hours) is a deceptive oversimplification [4][9] - This formula encourages students to prioritize achievements over genuine interests, leading to a loss of individuality and a sense of never being enough [8][10] - The pursuit of this formula can lead to burnout and a focus on external validation rather than self-discovery [19][15] Issues with the Formula - The formula promotes a "more is better" mentality, leading to unrealistic expectations and demotivation [11][12] - It encourages students to become clones of each other, ironically hindering their ability to stand out [9] - The formula can lead students to pursue activities solely for their perceived value on college applications, rather than genuine interest [14][15] - Even achieving the "perfect" formula does not guarantee admission to a dream university [13] Proposed Solutions - Shift the focus from "how to become the perfect applicant" to "who am I and what do I care about" [16] - Stop glorifying overwork and prioritize well-being [19][20] - Promote honest discussions about college admissions, including regrets and alternative paths [20][21] - Recognize that success is not limited to a single path and that alternative paths like community college or gap years are valid options [21][22] - Emphasize that colleges are looking for authentic individuals with stories and experiences, not perfect applicants [17]