By a show of hands, how many of us have heard the phrase, "Your colleagues are not your friends?" Thank you. Thank you. Can you remember who said that to you.Was it your boss, a parent, a mentor, or even the internet. Well, I'm here to tell you something really bold. They lied.Mhm. Not because they wanted to, but because sometimes well-meaning advice aren't well-meaning. They are fear dressed up as wisdom.I remember when I first heard this phrase. I took it close to heart. I showed up at work, did my job wi ...