[Music] I used to think that bouncing back from adversity as fast as possible was a sign of strength, a badge of honor. I used to say oh answer even me I am fine to the question how are you even though it was not always true I used to tell myself Vanessa you're a strong ambitious black woman be grateful for the opportunities H keep pushing those through the inequalities. I was raised to believe that success came from great grind and Okay. Okay. Sorry, I just got carried away there. Uh I mean by this uh blen ...

[Music] I used to think that bouncing back from adversity as fast as possible was a sign of strength, a badge of honor. I used to say oh answer even me I am fine to the question how are you even though it was not always true I used to tell myself Vanessa you're a strong ambitious black woman be grateful for the opportunities H keep pushing those through the inequalities. I was raised to believe that success came from great grind and Okay. Okay. Sorry, I just got carried away there. Uh I mean by this uh blen ...