Look at the person sitting next to you. If tomorrow they couldn't manage their own life, their home, their care, their finances, would you know what to do. Did y'all talk about it when you first sat down.Would you know their wishes, their passwords, or their plans. And if not, how much Jerry drama do you think that would create for you. More on that score later.The truth is, most of us wouldn't know any of that stuff. I know I didn't. Here's my story.Several years ago, without any warning or prior conversat ...