Before we go forward, I'd like to take you back, not years, but decades. Picture yourself when you're 5 years old. I know. I'm so cute.What made you feel safe or seen. What made you feel curious or hopeful. We start life full of wonder.And even in that not knowing, we feel the world deeply. We sense when something fits and when it doesn't. When we're five, we have that kind of clarity unclouded by expectation.I'm a developmental psychologist and a professor and for the past 25 years I've tried to carry that ...