Let me begin with a question. Have you ever felt grateful yet trapped at the same time. Grateful for parents who sacrificed everything. Grateful for opportunities they never had.Grateful for education, stability, protection, and yet quietly trapped by expectations you never chose. In Nigeria, success isn't personal. It is survival.For many families, success has a formula. Doctors, lawyers, engineers, accountants, something secure, something respected, something known. Because to our parents, security was ne ...

Okay. So, when was the last time you made a decision that was truly yours? Not your parents, not societies, yours. We're trying to think of life as a test. Multiple choice. One right answer. A, B, C, or D. We study hard. Memorize all the formulas, eliminate the obvious wrong ones, and pick the best remaining option. If you're lucky, you end up with a stable job, a mortgage, maybe even a golden retriever named Lucky. But here's the thing, life isn't a test with right answers. The real test isn't on paper. It ...