fractures. expectations. Now by show of hands, how many of you have felt, confused, nervous, anxious in these 30 seconds that I was saying nothing.What you were experiencing was an internal fracture because you had your expectations. This is a TED talk. I should be talking and I wasn't.So, I broke your expectations. I work with extraordinary people. I work with the gifted and the sensitive and the polymaths.And what we have uncovered is that expectations are the primary cause of fractures. This kind of frac ...

Unrealistic expectations are probably as old as dating and relationships, but a generation of young people who have grown up with personalised music playlists and online entertainment may be less willing to set their preferences aside https://t.co/8vVGbRLyvo ...

हाय माय 38 इयर्स वन वुड नॉट हैव इवन थॉट ऑफ अ लाइफ लाइक दिस इफ यू वुड हैव मेट मी द डे आई वास बोर्न या आई एम श्योर मैं बच्चा थी बट देन इट वास् वैरी डिफरेंट आई ऑलरेडी ह्यड एन एल्डर सिस्टर इन द फैमिली सो एवरीबडी वास् एक्सपेक्टिंग अ बॉय ऑफकोर्स बट अ बेबी बॉय दे आल्सो थॉट ऑफ द नेम कि इनका क्या नाम रखेंगे बट आई एम नॉट श्योर इफ दे थॉट कि वो मेरा नाम क्या रखेंगे दिस स्टोरी इज़ नॉट अबाउट माय पेरेंट्स कि वो सोच रहे थे इट विल बी सो डिफिकल्ट फॉर देम बट इट वाज़ अबाउट द सोसाइटी जो लोग उनको बता रहे थे कि एक बेटी तो हो चुकी ह ...

[Music] Fracture. expectation. Now, by show of hands, how many of you have felt, confused, nervous, anxious in these 30 seconds that I was saying.what you were experiencing was an internal factor because you had your expectations. This is a TED talk. I should be talking and I wasn't.So, I broke your expectations. I work with extraordinary people. I work with the gifted and the sensitive and And what we have uncovered is that expectations are the primary cause of fractures.This kind of fracture, it starts mu ...

You should be perfect. You should be perfect. You should all be perfect.But not in the way you think. This word being perfect once meant to me. You should have no flaws.And I've come to realize that perfect can have more meaning than that. I'm someone who has spent my entire life trying to achieve this old idea of perfection, especially in an academic setting. And while in school, it may be more straightforward with that 100% grade, this number doesn't really translate into your own life.I believe it is thi ...

[Music] I am going to show you a drawing of a man's face. He has dark hair, a wide set jaw, and a slightly crooked nose. How would you describe his facial expression.Now, I'm going to show you a drawing of a woman sitting on the ground. Her gaze is cast downwards. What do you think she's thinking.Can you see both the man's face and the woman. But the image isn't changing. The sensory input entering your eyes is not changing.Only your thoughts are changing. You may think that your thoughts are just yours, bu ...