Okay. You can never expect because every time you feel that your life is stable, suddenly a panic monster comes in front of you to tell you, are you chilling. And you're supposed to tell it, no, no, no.I'm still on the track. Well, the place where we all come from, we do not get introduced with the word pressure at school. It starts way earlier at the time of our birth.Well, in my defense, I was 2.5% kgs plus. I think I'm already in the league of the competition. Well, why did I quote that.When you would ta ...

Okay. Is it working. How's everybody feeling.Good. Exhausted. Yeah.Right. According to the scientist, human brain can fully focus only 9 seconds. And here I am standing here giving you a spec 10 minutes.Growing up, I've been looking up in the neighborhood to my peers, to the girls the same age as me, and to the goals that they wanted to achieve. Most of the time it was getting married, having kids, retiring, working a job, and that's it. That was if you'd accomplished that that meant that as a girl you acco ...

fractures. expectations. Now by show of hands, how many of you have felt, confused, nervous, anxious in these 30 seconds that I was saying nothing.What you were experiencing was an internal fracture because you had your expectations. This is a TED talk. I should be talking and I wasn't.So, I broke your expectations. I work with extraordinary people. I work with the gifted and the sensitive and the polymaths.And what we have uncovered is that expectations are the primary cause of fractures. This kind of frac ...

Unrealistic expectations are probably as old as dating and relationships, but a generation of young people who have grown up with personalised music playlists and online entertainment may be less willing to set their preferences aside https://t.co/8vVGbRLyvo ...

हाय माय 38 इयर्स वन वुड नॉट हैव इवन थॉट ऑफ अ लाइफ लाइक दिस इफ यू वुड हैव मेट मी द डे आई वास बोर्न या आई एम श्योर मैं बच्चा थी बट देन इट वास् वैरी डिफरेंट आई ऑलरेडी ह्यड एन एल्डर सिस्टर इन द फैमिली सो एवरीबडी वास् एक्सपेक्टिंग अ बॉय ऑफकोर्स बट अ बेबी बॉय दे आल्सो थॉट ऑफ द नेम कि इनका क्या नाम रखेंगे बट आई एम नॉट श्योर इफ दे थॉट कि वो मेरा नाम क्या रखेंगे दिस स्टोरी इज़ नॉट अबाउट माय पेरेंट्स कि वो सोच रहे थे इट विल बी सो डिफिकल्ट फॉर देम बट इट वाज़ अबाउट द सोसाइटी जो लोग उनको बता रहे थे कि एक बेटी तो हो चुकी ह ...

Core Argument - Expectations are a primary cause of fractures in individuals and systems [1][2][3][4][5][6][7] - True connection, facilitated by joy, heals these fractures [8][9][10] - Unlearning expectations leads to connection without condition, or unconditional love [11][12] - The Japanese art of Kinsugi, repairing broken pottery with gold, serves as a metaphor for illuminating and valuing fractures [13][14][15] Proposed Solution & Future Vision - Healing individuals with "gold" (clarity, resilience) can heal fractured systems [16][17][18] - This healing process requires courage and persistence, not financial investment [19] - The future envisioned is one of integrated individuals acting on love, with pliable systems and heart-driven leadership [20][21]

You should be perfect. You should be perfect. You should all be perfect.But not in the way you think. This word being perfect once meant to me. You should have no flaws.And I've come to realize that perfect can have more meaning than that. I'm someone who has spent my entire life trying to achieve this old idea of perfection, especially in an academic setting. And while in school, it may be more straightforward with that 100% grade, this number doesn't really translate into your own life.I believe it is thi ...

[Music] I am going to show you a drawing of a man's face. He has dark hair, a wide set jaw, and a slightly crooked nose. How would you describe his facial expression.Now, I'm going to show you a drawing of a woman sitting on the ground. Her gaze is cast downwards. What do you think she's thinking.Can you see both the man's face and the woman. But the image isn't changing. The sensory input entering your eyes is not changing.Only your thoughts are changing. You may think that your thoughts are just yours, bu ...