How did I get here. How did YOU GET HERE. THAT Deborah Cox song, that's the song I sing every time I look in the mirror and I see this old face staring back at me that I don't recognize.But if I'm honest, it wasn't the old face staring back from the mirror that first gave me an indication that I was getting old. No, it was when I started showing up to events and young people, younger people started using labels to refer to me that I used to use to refer to people that WERE AGING THAT I LOOK UP TO. They star ...