Another thing, of course, that does one in is the self-serving bias to which we're all subject. You think the true little me is entitled to do what it wants to do. And for instance, why shouldn't the true little me overspend my income.Generally speaking, envy, resentment, revenge, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thoughts. Self-pity gets pretty close to paranoia. ...

I've been in my opinion sort of not abused but treated poorly by business partners, venture capitalists and I struggle with anger and I thought oh I'm going to serve this guy a cold lunch someday and it lives rent free in my head and one of my mentors Hamid Mogadam said to me he's like you really want to get at this guy was a VC one of the most powerful VCs in the world washed me out of my stake in my company kicked me off the board he's like you really want to get back at him I'm like yeah what are we goin ...