In years gone by, this is how I, as a widow, would have been portrayed. Veiled and shrouded in sadness, a widow was to be seen but not heard. Silent but strong as they carried the burden of loss for family and friends for a set amount of time as dictated by culture, religion, society, and men.Historically, there was a timeline and a guideline for a widow's grief. Well, we can forget all of that. Hello, I can see you now.[laughter] My name's Tabby Kerwin. I am a published coaching psychologist and a widow. A ...