Do you want to join in? Come on, join in. That was the question that was posed to me as a 9-year-old as I stood at the side of a rugby pitch. You see, rugby was distant to me at that stage because I grew up in a hockey family. My dad played hockey to a representative level. He then went home to umpire internationally. I have an older brother and an older sister who both played hockey as well. And since no age, I had a hockey stick in my hand. But this invitation was different to join in in mini rugby. I had ...