这一行为之所以触动人心，更深层的价值在于，它生动诠释了何为婚姻幸福的理性认知。婚姻幸福的基 石，是"两个新人合得来"，是情感上的相知相守、人格上的平等独立、生活中的相濡以沫，而非任何物 质堆砌的虚浮承诺。这与我国近年来大力倡导的婚俗新风高度契合。从中央一号文件多次点名"高价彩 礼"，到民政部门持续推动婚俗改革实验区建设，再到多部门联合印发《关于开展婚俗改革试点工作的 指导意见》，其核心导向正是破除陈规陋习，弘扬"风雨同舟、相濡以沫、责任担当、互敬互爱"的婚姻 理念。陈学钊一家的选择，正是这一宏大社会倡导在微观家庭层面的鲜活落地与自觉践行。 值得欣慰的是，这样的理性之声正汇聚成时代的新潮。近年来，越来越多的年轻人认识到幸福婚姻的本 质，他们自觉抵制高价彩礼的同时，也不再盲目追求婚礼的奢侈浪漫。从简朴温馨的集体婚礼到别具意 义的旅行结婚，从双方家庭协商一致免除彩礼到将启动资金用于共同创业或学习深造，这些务实而清新 的选择，无不彰显着年轻一代对婚姻本质更为透彻的洞察——婚姻是共建生活的事业，而非炫耀性消费 的秀场。这些行为，正是让婚姻关系更纯粹、让社会风气更良性的积极力量。 关育兵 近日，贵州铜仁的一场婚礼上，岳父 ...

Group 1 - The newly revised Marriage Registration Regulations, effective from May 1, eliminate the requirement for a household registration book for both marriage and divorce registrations, but the divorce cooling-off period imposes significant restrictions, making divorce not easy despite the removal of the household registration requirement [1][3] - The implementation of the divorce cooling-off period has led to a decrease in the proportion of consensual divorces from 86.1% in 2020 to 71.94% in 2023, while litigation divorces increased from 13.9% to 28.06%, indicating that the cooling-off period has not effectively strengthened marriages [3][4] - The number of marriage registrations in 2024 has reached a historical low since 1980, reflecting a shift in attitudes towards marriage, with some individuals opting not to marry due to the complexities of divorce [4][16] Group 2 - The divorce cooling-off period has resulted in couples preferring litigation over mediation, as they find court-mediated resolutions quicker than waiting for the cooling-off period to end [6][8] - The cooling-off period may exacerbate conflicts between couples, as one party may withdraw their divorce application during this time, leading to increased distrust and resentment [6][7] - The cooling-off period and the prohibition on litigation can create unfair situations regarding property distribution, as the initial court ruling may not address asset division, allowing one party to potentially transfer assets during the waiting period [10][12] Group 3 - Women, particularly full-time mothers, are more likely to be disadvantaged by the cooling-off period, as they may lack knowledge about family finances and find themselves in a vulnerable position during divorce proceedings [12][18] - The trend of individuals choosing to cohabit rather than marry is increasing, as many perceive marriage as complicated and burdensome due to the cooling-off period [16][19] - The complexity of asset division in divorces has increased due to the variety of assets involved, including intangible assets like stocks and cryptocurrencies, making the process more challenging [14][20]