Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the complexities and emotional struggles of a woman, Su Ke, who ended her 12-year marriage, highlighting the lack of intimacy and communication in modern relationships, particularly among middle-class couples in urban settings [6][28]. Group 1: Marriage Dynamics - Su Ke married at 34 after a brief courtship, feeling societal pressure to marry, which led to a seemingly stable life with a house, car, and child [3][4]. - Despite the outward appearance of a typical middle-class life, the marriage was marked by financial secrecy and emotional distance, with the couple rarely communicating or sharing intimacy [4][9]. - The couple's relationship deteriorated after the birth of their child, leading to separate sleeping arrangements and a complete lack of sexual intimacy for over four years [5][10]. Group 2: Decision to Divorce - The decision to divorce was influenced by a significant reduction in living expenses proposed by the husband, prompting Su Ke to reassess the value of her marriage [10][12]. - Su Ke expressed that the marriage felt like a slow decline, lacking joy and connection, leading her to realize that she could manage her responsibilities without her husband [6][10]. - The couple agreed to divorce while continuing to live together for the sake of their child, with Su Ke emphasizing the importance of maintaining a relationship with both parents for the child's well-being [16][20]. Group 3: Post-Divorce Life - After the divorce, Su Ke found a sense of relief and freedom, enjoying her independence and the ability to create a personal space that reflects her preferences [25][27]. - The arrangement allowed her to maintain a close relationship with her child while also establishing boundaries with her ex-husband, demonstrating that co-parenting can be effective even post-divorce [20][22]. - Su Ke's experience highlights a shift in societal norms regarding marriage and divorce, where individuals prioritize personal happiness and comfort over traditional expectations [28][29].