Good afternoon everyone. My name is Vincent Toad and welcome to my TEDex talk. I never thought I'd be up here, not as a military spouse giving a TEDex talk.I mean, when I first arrived to Okinawa, I was the new guy, the plus one, the tag along. My husband, he is a Marine, and like many military spouses, I move from base to base, picking up and starting all over again. But being a male military spouse in a female predominant space, I often felt like I was wearing the wrong uniform at the wrong event.I used t ...