You've all heard the phrase, "Put your own oxygen mask on first before helping others. " Now, I want you to be honest with me. If you were sitting on a plane next to mom, best friend, grandpa, and they were panicking in an emergency, do you really think you'd be able to do that? Honestly, me either, but that's why you're here today. The problem is is that most of us were raised and conditioned to be nice women, not kind women. We've been told to smile, say yes, don't make waves, but niceness often comes at ...