[Music] I think others are yet to join. Principal Dr. . Eskeel, distinguished speakers and my dear dear Indians.It's a matter of honor to me to be speaking to a elite section of Indians. Formality is cut there. Gentlemen, I'll start off.Life is a flow and it's a flow and it's a flow. I'll explain by saying have you people calculated ever that uh 66,000 Indians are born every day. Let's also calculate about 26,000 Indians perish every day. Now to put them together about 40,000 Indians are added to our nation ...

Core Argument - The presentation advocates for healthy egoism, distinguishing it from harmful egoism and narcissism, emphasizing self-awareness, boundary setting, and self-care [5][9][17][18] - It highlights the importance of prioritizing one's own needs to effectively support others, using the analogy of putting on an oxygen mask first on an airplane [4] Defining Healthy Egoism - Healthy egoism involves knowing oneself, one's needs, and how to position oneself in various environments [17] - It includes building boundaries and teaching others how to treat you, as people will treat you based on their understanding unless instructed otherwise [18] - Self-care is presented as a right, not a luxury, essential for restoring energy [18] Contrasting with Unhealthy Egoism and Narcissism - Unhealthy egoism is characterized by controlling and manipulating others, seeking constant spotlight, and disregarding the impact of actions on others [5][6] - Another example is being overly focused on career development to the detriment of relationships and personal well-being, leading to others feeling used or dismissed [7] Practical Techniques for Boundary Setting - The "I message" technique is introduced, involving describing the situation, naming the emotion, explaining why it's important, and suggesting a solution, all without accusatory language [20] - Communicating with care and without guilt or apologies for setting boundaries is crucial for success [22] Real-life Examples - Examples include an assistant overwhelmed by requests from other departments [10][11] and a woman stressed by a Saturday morning call from her boss [11][12][13], illustrating the consequences of not setting boundaries - Another example is a woman who comes home with heavy shopping bags and is only asked when dinner will be ready, highlighting the need to teach family members how to treat her [15][16] Benefits of Healthy Egoism - Psychologists suggest that self-focus improves life and career, enhances mental health by reducing depression and anxiety, and increases resilience in office environments [23] - Setting boundaries is presented as an act of love for oneself and others [23]

Picture [Applause] this. I'm outside of Walmart minding my business, enjoying the hot, sunny weather and chilly breeze when all of a sudden this random stranger decides to drop all four of his grocery bags and an enormous watermelon a few feet away from him. The most logical thing to do would be to help the man and chase after his watermelon.But here's the thing. I was holding a Dairy Queen Blizzard. Really good.Peanut butter chocolate chip cookie dough blizzard. And suddenly I was torn. One part of me was ...

Core Message - The speech emphasizes that true success and fulfillment are not found on predefined paths or traditional milestones, but rather in embracing unexpected detours, cultivating meaningful connections, and focusing on personal growth [2][3][6] - The speaker advocates for defining a personal compass based on values rather than following a fixed map of coordinates, encouraging individuals to prioritize purpose over destination [13][30][31] - The speech promotes the idea that failures and rejections are not setbacks but redirections, leading to new opportunities and perspectives [15] Personal Growth & Development - The speech highlights the importance of selflessness and making a positive impact on others' lives as a source of profound fulfillment [9][10] - It encourages continuous learning and self-improvement, advocating for seeking mentors and building relationships that foster personal growth [22][23] - The speaker shares personal anecdotes about motherhood and a daughter's illness, illustrating how life's challenges can lead to unexpected growth and a deeper understanding of oneself [7][8] Embracing Change & Uncertainty - The speech uses the example of Nokia's decline and Netflix's evolution to illustrate the importance of adapting to change and reinventing oneself in the face of evolving circumstances [12][13] - It encourages individuals to embrace detours and unexpected opportunities, sharing a story about a chance encounter on a train that led to representing India at an international conference [16][17][18][19][20][21] - The speaker emphasizes that life's diversions are not glitches but part of the design, often leading to something bigger and better [11][12]

[Music] [Applause] [Music] Good afternoon everybody. There are two kinds of people in the world. One who believe they are invincible and the second who have tried walking down a staircase while texting.People fall, they sustain a fracture. And as an orthopedic surgeon, I can tell you that gravity always wins. It's very democratic.We have treated CEOs, students, grandmothers, and people often tend to break. I'm Dr. . Jamman Sharma and today I'm here to tell you what broken bones have taught me about the hidd ...

[Music] Raise your hand if you have ever been called selfish before. Keep your hand up if you think being called selfish is a bad thing. I used to think the exact same way.We've all been raised since we were young. Being selfish is one of the worst things you can be. Put other people first. What will other people think.And what's interesting is there was no limit to selflessness. The more you give, the more selfless you are, the better of a person you are. The law of diminishing returns does not exist when ...