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Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of maintaining appropriate boundaries in relationships to foster healthy interactions and prevent conflicts. It suggests that too much closeness can lead to misunderstandings and resentment, advocating for a balanced approach to social connections. Group 1: Importance of Boundaries - Healthy relationships require a balance of closeness and distance, as excessive intimacy can lead to a lack of respect and understanding [4][15][20] - The concept of "personal boundaries" is crucial; losing these boundaries can result in a loss of individuality and lead to conflicts [19][20][36] - The analogy of porcupines illustrates that while individuals may seek warmth in relationships, they must also be cautious of the pain that excessive closeness can cause [22][36] Group 2: Examples and Anecdotes - The story of writer W. Somerset Maugham highlights how a close friendship can turn sour when boundaries are not respected, leading to financial strain and emotional discomfort [12][15][19] - The relationship between philosophers Albert Camus and Jean-Paul Sartre serves as an example of how blurred boundaries can lead to the end of a friendship due to external pressures and personal issues [19][20] - The friendship between Wang Jizhen and Shen Congwen demonstrates that mutual understanding and respect for each other's space can sustain a long-distance relationship without diminishing emotional ties [24][32][36]