Core Viewpoint - The phenomenon of "loofah soup" has become a cultural symbol representing the communication breakdown between parents and children, highlighting the emotional struggles faced by the younger generation in familial interactions [2][5][25]. Group 1: Communication Dynamics - "Loofah soup" serves as a metaphor for the dismissive and controlling communication style often employed by parents, which can dilute children's emotions and needs [2][5]. - Many young adults experience frustration when conversing with their parents, leading to conflicts that stem from a lack of understanding on both sides [3][4]. - The widespread nature of these communication issues contributes to the popularity of "loofah soup" as a relatable cultural reference among young people [5]. Group 2: Psychological Control - Parental psychological control (PPC) is identified as a significant factor in the emotional dynamics between parents and children, characterized by intrusive behaviors that undermine children's autonomy [6][7]. - Six strategies of PPC include limiting verbal expression, denying feelings, personal attacks, guilt induction, withdrawal of love, and emotional instability [8][9][11][12][14][16]. - Children raised under PPC often develop a controlled motivation, acting not out of genuine interest but to avoid guilt or shame, leading to a superficial compliance with parental expectations [20][21][22]. Group 3: Emotional Impact - The internal conflict arising from parental control can lead to a fragmented sense of self in children, resulting in anxiety and difficulties in adult relationships [24][28]. - The fear of losing one's autonomy is reflected in the aversion to phrases like "drink some loofah soup," symbolizing a deeper fear of losing self-identity [25]. - The emotional turmoil caused by PPC can manifest in maladaptive perfectionism and a distorted self-worth, as children internalize external standards set by their parents [23][24]. Group 4: Cultural Context - The controlling behaviors of parents are often rooted in their own insecurities and unresolved emotional traumas, which are projected onto their children [31][32][34]. - The traditional family structure in China has historically emphasized obedience and discipline, which contrasts with the modern emphasis on individualism and emotional support [37][39][40]. - As societal norms evolve, younger generations seek more understanding and supportive relationships with their parents, leading to a psychological shift in familial dynamics [41][42].