Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the psychological challenges faced by modern children, emphasizing their unmet psychological needs, the pressure from parental expectations, and the impact of technology on their development [4][5][22]. Group 1: Unmet Psychological Needs - Children today have their material needs met but struggle with existential questions about their purpose and meaning in life, leading to feelings of loneliness [6][7]. - The lack of open discussions about these feelings at home contributes to their sense of isolation, as children feel their emotional needs are overlooked [8][10]. Group 2: Misunderstood Love - Parents often express love through high expectations and pressure, which can lead children to feel that love is conditional and tied to performance [9][10]. - This duality creates confusion for children, who may perceive their parents as both loving and a source of stress, leading to emotional struggles [10][11]. Group 3: Technology and Learning - The prevalence of smartphones has led to a disconnect between children and traditional learning environments, with many children feeling that technology does not hinder their education [12][13]. - Parents often engage in conflicts over technology use, failing to recognize that children view smartphones as integral tools for social interaction and learning [13][14]. Group 4: Lack of Learning Motivation - A significant shift has occurred, with a reported increase in students feeling disengaged from learning, moving from 20% to 80% expressing disinterest [23][24]. - Children today often question the value of education in achieving traditional markers of success, such as home ownership, leading to a lack of intrinsic motivation to learn [25][26]. Group 5: Imbalance in Development - Modern parenting often emphasizes cognitive skills at the expense of practical life skills, resulting in children who excel academically but struggle with real-world challenges [29][30]. - This imbalance can lead to anxiety and withdrawal from social situations as children realize their capabilities do not match their peers [30][31]. Group 6: Confusion About Growth - Children face immense pressure to succeed and meet parental expectations, leading to a sense of confusion about their identity and aspirations [32][34]. - Many children desire a simple, untroubled life but feel trapped by the high expectations set by their parents, causing internal conflict and reluctance to pursue their true interests [33][34].