I'm someone whom people might consider successful. I worked hard. I earned degrees.I got good jobs. I lived a good life. But I lived with a sneaking suspicion. Despite all of that, I lived with a sneaking suspicion that I wasn't quite as competent as other people seemed to think I was.I felt like I was kind of faking it a lot of the time. And I and I used up a lot of energy worrying about when somebody was going to call me on it. at every stage in my adult life, from being an undergraduate who didn't apply ...

Let us begin with a belief, one that we rarely question, one that spans across economics, politics, governments, and even corporate leadership along with parenting. What is that belief, you ask. It is that control is good.In finance, control manifests itself as market regulations. In economics, it's all about governments and control, right. Even in parenting, it's about routines and deadlines and rules and night times.But what is the question that is really worth asking. What if we actually have to ask ours ...