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Riding Beyond Limits: From Dreams to Destiny | Rinaa Shah | TEDxSPCE
TEDx Talks· 2025-08-12 15:07
Illusion of Success & Societal Expectations - Social media, society, and personal biases create unrealistic expectations, leading to the illusion of success [1] - Comparing oneself to others without knowing their struggles is a trap, as success requires hard work, discipline, and commitment [1] - External validation should not be prioritized over internal fulfillment and true passion [1] Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Goals - Fear of failure should be reframed as feedback and a stepping stone to success [2] - Perfectionism is a myth; taking the first step and action is more important than striving for initial perfection [2] - Lack of clarity and passion can hinder progress; self-awareness and aligning goals with values are crucial [2] - External obstacles like societal opinions, financial struggles, and lack of resources should not deter one from pursuing their goals [2][3] - Lack of discipline and consistency are major impediments; discipline and consistency go hand in hand [4] - Limiting beliefs and negative self-talk need to be addressed by understanding triggers and seeking motivation [4] Balancing Life & Prioritization - Balancing health, work, family, and friends is essential, but it's impossible to have it all simultaneously; prioritization is key [5]
The Danger of Perfectionism | Joli Kwong | TEDxDiscovery College Youth
TEDx Talks· 2025-07-17 16:11
Stress is a feeling that we will all experience in life. It's normal and even healthy to have some level of stress. Whether it's work, family, friends, extracurricular killers, or anything in general, stress can help us feel motivated and manage growth.What is important, however, is that we manage that stress so it doesn't overwhelm us and in methods that work for us. Now, I want you all and the audience to close your eyes and take a deep breath in. Now, imagine all of the stress in your life being crumpled ...
Finding Purpose in Life’s Imperfections | Roxann Afonso | TEDxYouth@TCHS
TEDx Talks· 2025-07-14 15:04
Personal Growth & Fulfillment - The pursuit of perfection can overshadow the real joy in the process [3] - True fulfillment comes from the journey, meaning, and connections, not just perfect results [5] - Finding meaning in life is essential and should be pursued daily [7] - Volunteering provides a sense of purpose deeper than achieving perfect grades [8] Impact & Connection - Success is about the change inspired along the way, not just achieving goals [8] - Connecting with others, especially those facing challenges, is valuable [9] - Storytelling is a powerful tool for inspiring change and connection [10] - Shared stories bind people together and remind them they are not alone [11] Embracing Imperfection - Life, like baking, is about savoring the process, even when it's messy [4] - The perfect recipe for life is a blend of trials, joys, and surprises [12]
WHY Comparison Is Hurting Us | Pragnya Vella | TEDxSun Prairie West High School
TEDx Talks· 2025-07-09 16:01
[Music] over others. Please welcome to the stage Pragna Bella. I grew up in an Indian household with a family dynamic that puts Never Have I Ever to shame.Bollywood dance numbers that are just one piouette short of Jonathan Bailey's wicked performance and surrounded by spices that white men almost fell off the earth to find just to not use. But beyond the food, music, and drama stood the true pinnacle of brown society. Indian aunties.For years, I tried to claw my way up to their table only to hear them coll ...
Imperfectly Done: The Case for Imperfectionism | AARON GEORGE VINAY | TEDxOOBSchool
TEDx Talks· 2025-07-01 15:52
[Music] How many of you would simply pick this up, twist it around, see what happens. Okay. Okay, that's great.Now, what if I told you this cube you're looking at has 43 quintilion possible combinations. and you're looking at just one of them. How many would still be in.Raise your hands. That is lesser than before. But why is that.We look at this cube and see a problem. For us, it's a test of our intelligence. But not for my four-year-old cousin.He simply twists it, flips it, even breaks it, and just laughs ...
Two Letters, Two Sides, Two Mindsets | Christina Zhang | TEDxHarriton High School
TEDx Talks· 2025-06-23 16:20
Everyone here has had a goal at some point in their life. Whether small or big, like an like a diet or an important project, we all had to overcome a barrier called starting. You know, you want to achieve something.You have an idea of how to get there, but most of the time you lose motivation very quickly. For example, I had a goal to give up on chocolate because I wanted to be fitter. I had an outline of an outline of a plan, but it turns out being fit actually takes work.Yeah, know I gave up in around 2 h ...
Perfect Trap | Alya Hanpolat | TEDxYouth@AASSofia
TEDx Talks· 2025-06-18 16:23
Core Argument - The pursuit of perfection is a trap, affecting various aspects of life and limiting individuals [21][22] - Perfection is unrealistic and fake, and it does not equate to success, which is achieved through effort and hard work [22] Societal Impact - Society values perfection, which is celebrated and often forced upon individuals through social media and expectations [5] - Social media presents unrealistic standards, leading to comparisons and affecting various aspects of life [20][21] Psychological Effects - Chasing perfection can lead to overthinking, self-doubt, criticism, and anxiety [11][12] - The pressure to be perfect can be more severe for neurodiverse individuals or those with conditions like OCD, leading to compulsions and distress [14] Behavioral Implications - The pursuit of perfection can hinder risk-taking, which is essential for innovation and success [15][16][17] - Focusing on perfection can prevent individuals from truly living in the moment and enjoying life [17][18] Counterarguments - Seeking perfection can lead to detail-oriented and high-quality work, ambition, and commitment, benefiting academic achievement and professional success [19]