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Group 1 - The article emphasizes the importance of classic literature in inspiring creativity among children, encouraging them to write new stories based on well-known characters and plots [1] - It highlights the ongoing engagement of students with classic works, suggesting that these stories continue to resonate and provide a foundation for imaginative exploration [1][10] - The publication "Xiao Miao" serves as a platform for students to express their thoughts and creativity, focusing on their growth and experiences [16] Group 2 - "Xiao Miao" has a rich history, having been established in 1982 as a dedicated space for children's writing, making it a pioneering initiative among provincial party newspapers in China [16] - The weekly publication aims to capture the lives and reflections of Beijing's primary and secondary school students, fostering a sense of community and shared experience [16] - The platform has become influential in the realm of student writing, receiving positive feedback from teachers and parents alike [16]

Core Viewpoint - The narrative explores the transformation of a woman named Nala from being perceived as a "doll" under patriarchal control to achieving independence and self-identity through personal struggle and responsibility [1][2] Group 1: Characterization of Nala - Nala is referred to with pet-like nicknames by her husband, indicating a relationship of inequality and objectification [1] - The concept of a "doll" symbolizes Nala's lack of agency, existing solely to please her husband and father [1] Group 2: Transformation and Empowerment - Nala experiences a significant change when she takes on the responsibility of borrowing money for her husband's medical treatment, leading to a sense of liberation from her previous role [2] - The act of working hard to repay the loan instills in Nala a sense of purpose and identity, allowing her to feel more like an independent individual rather than a dependent [2] - Nala's journey reflects a broader societal call for women to stand up for themselves and establish their own identities, resonating with historical movements for women's rights [2] Group 3: The Essence of True Freedom - The narrative emphasizes that true beauty and fulfillment come from self-sufficiency and facing life's challenges head-on, rather than relying on external validation [2] - Nala's growth is likened to a tree, symbolizing strength and independence, contrasting with her previous existence as a confined "canary" [2]

中国父母在给子女买房这个问题上，似乎有一种执念。父母们从以前必须给儿子买房，为他成家提供必要的物质基础，到现在女儿也同样需要房子来增加生 活的底气和安全感。 但是，也有一部分家长坚持不给女儿买房，即便他们有很多的"闲钱"。 如果只有一个女儿，在条件允许的情况下，到底要不要给女儿买房？相信很多父母都遇上了同样的难题。 同事小李成长于工薪家庭，她的父母省吃俭用大半辈子，在小李大学毕业时，倾尽全力给她买了一套房子。 对于买房问题，她的爸爸如此说道："我要买房子那会儿很多人劝我不要买，女孩子有个娘家就够了，以后结婚她的老公肯定也会有房子，何必提前买一套 呢？" "可是我不这么想，我希望我的女儿有一个自己的房子，以后嫁人了如果遇人不淑，她可以有底气离开，不至于受了委屈没有地方可去。" 可是这与家庭条件还不错的金叔叔的想法截然相反。金叔叔家有一个宝贝女儿，可是迟迟不愿意给女儿买房，但绝对不是因为不够爱她。 原来，金叔叔的女儿已经30岁了，还未谈婚论嫁。 随着社会的发展，人们的思想观念也在随之改变。 在父母看来，家庭经济宽裕的情况下，都想着给自己的子女买一套房子，给男孩买房更多是为了结婚成家，给女孩买房则是为了让她们更有底 ...