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“爱看书的男人”,成了约会软件最潮的人设?
Hu Xiu· 2025-08-27 06:49
Group 1 - The article discusses the rising trend of "performative males," who present themselves as cultured and intellectual primarily for social validation and attraction, rather than genuine interest in literature or arts [1][4][25] - Data from Tinder indicates a significant increase in users identifying as "book boyfriends," with the percentage rising from 58% at the end of 2024 to 77%, and a 16% annual growth in users listing "reading" as an interest [2][3] - The performative male phenomenon is characterized by specific behaviors and aesthetics, such as reading classic literature in public, listening to indie music, and adopting a carefully curated style to project an image of sophistication [5][13][25] Group 2 - The article highlights a cultural shift where individuals prioritize shared values and ideologies in dating, contrasting with previous generations that focused more on personality and appearance [17][18] - Platforms like Hinge encourage users to create detailed profiles that reflect their beliefs and interests, moving beyond traditional dating criteria [18][21] - The performative male's appeal lies in their ability to create a trustworthy and empathetic persona, often masking underlying insincerity [25][29][36] Group 3 - The article also draws parallels between the performative male trend in Western cultures and similar behaviors observed in Eastern contexts, where individuals adopt specific styles and phrases to attract partners [26][27] - Notable examples include public figures who project progressive values while engaging in contradictory behaviors, illustrating the deceptive nature of the performative male archetype [31][33][36] - The phenomenon is further complicated by social media dynamics, where both the performative males and their critics contribute to the visibility and perpetuation of these behaviors [37][38]