Core Viewpoint - The article emphasizes the importance of fostering a child's intrinsic motivation through positive reinforcement and effective communication, rather than relying on criticism and pressure [22][27][66]. Group 1 - The author reflects on the challenges of parenting a 12-year-old son who appears lazy and unmotivated, leading to frustration during homework sessions [4][10][12]. - The author realizes that constant criticism may diminish the child's self-worth and motivation, causing resistance and disengagement [22][24][26]. - A pivotal moment occurs during a parent-child activity, where the author learns that excessive nagging can hinder a child's willingness to participate and engage [15][18][20]. Group 2 - The author identifies three key strategies to improve communication and support the child's intrinsic motivation: observing instead of judging, listening and empathizing, and providing positive feedback [30][44][57]. - The first strategy involves reducing criticism and focusing on observing the child's actions to understand their perspective better [33][40][42]. - The second strategy emphasizes changing the communication style to foster a more supportive environment, shifting from demands to genuine interest in the child's feelings and experiences [45][48][50]. - The third strategy focuses on recognizing and celebrating the child's strengths and successes, which can help build their confidence and motivation [61][63][65].