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Core Viewpoint - The article discusses the significance of picture books in modern parenting, highlighting their role in fostering parent-child relationships and providing educational benefits without the drawbacks of digital media [1][3]. Group 1: Benefits of Picture Books - Picture books serve as a valuable tool for parents, alleviating concerns about children's screen time and internet dependency [1]. - Shared reading experiences can lead to meaningful conversations between parents and children, enhancing emotional connections [1]. - The practice of reading together can be a source of comfort and bonding, as illustrated by the personal story of Alice Ozma and her father [1]. Group 2: Parental Perspectives and Choices - Parents often grapple with the perceived utility of reading picture books, weighing their educational value against societal pressures [3]. - Different parents have varying approaches to selecting picture books, with some focusing on educational content while others prioritize emotional and narrative aspects [4][7]. - The experience of reading picture books can be seen as a leisurely activity without strict educational goals, allowing children to develop their preferences organically [4][7]. Group 3: Psychological Insights and Parenting Challenges - Kitt, a reading center owner, emphasizes the importance of understanding children's emotional needs and fostering open communication through shared reading [9][12]. - Many parents experience anxiety about their children's education, often feeling torn between structured learning and allowing freedom for exploration [14][15]. - Kitt advocates for a balanced approach to parenting, encouraging parents to reflect on their educational methods and their impact on children's development [15][19]. Group 4: Community and Support - Reading centers like Kitt's provide a space for parents and children to engage with books, facilitating interactions that can strengthen familial bonds [12][20]. - The community aspect of reading events allows parents to share experiences and learn from one another, creating a supportive environment for both parents and children [12][20].