[applause] At some point in life, we all become the caregiver. And what I'm sharing with you today is based on lived experience, hard work, and science with only one goal to inspire you and maybe help you look differently at something we think we all understand. That is how we care for others.Today we are facing an epidemic of burnouts in health care, in classrooms, and even in friendships. But what if the key to a truly humane society lies in a common skill, one that could benefit us all. Because the probl ...

[cheering] [applause] Good evening everyone. I'm so excited to be with you here tonight. How many of you have ever taken a college class where you read and studied the works of 19th century Danish philosopher Saurin Kirkagar? Raise your hands. Well, I did. And nearly 40 years later, I still have no idea what the concept of existentialism means. Yes, that's right. I know. Um, but never did I think I would be on a public stage quoting him and saying his words as shared with me by a dear friend. Life can only ...

Our columnist searches for new ways to cope as a caregiver, offering stories from others taking care of loved ones and expert advice. https://t.co/QnSNRzvE5n ...

Our columnist searches for new ways to cope as a caregiver, offering stories from others taking care of loved ones and expert advice. https://t.co/SC1IKRhvvp ...

Caregiving Is The Crack In America’s Retirement And Longevity Planning https://t.co/gdrqiKJGtX ...

As America experiences a shortage of healthcare workers and an aging population, more and more families are being forced to shoulder the financial and emotional burden of caring for their loved ones. On this week's Decoding Retirement, host Robert "Bob" Powell dives into the details of a new study on caregiving with its author, John McHugh, associate professor at Virginia Commonwealth University. John and Bob discuss what to consider when choosing a state to retire in, helpful resources to ease the caregivi ...

This is a big issue. We've been talking about it for years, about the amount of money that's either shifting into the hands of women. What it means, what the differences are.I am curious, and maybe not everybody's aware of all the work that you guys are doing. You have this very specific mission at Pivotal. Remind everybody what you're up to, and I am curious about what it means on a day to day basis, what you're looking forward to invest in relationships and so on.Yes. Again, well, thank you for having me. ...

Core Concept - The presentation introduces the "adolescence of aging" as a distinct and challenging life stage where aging parents require increasing support while resisting assistance, mirroring teenage rebellion [1][3] - This stage is characterized by defiance, denial, and decline, leading to disempowerment for both aging parents and their adult children [3][4] Challenges Faced by Adult Children - Adult children often find themselves in a "squeeze," balancing career, family, and caregiving responsibilities, a situation affecting 37 million (百万) in the United States [1] - They experience emotional turmoil, including frustration, fear, and powerlessness, while navigating the changing roles and needs of their aging parents [1] Psychological and Neurological Basis - The "adolescence of aging" has roots in psychology, referencing Erikson's ninth stage of development and Franco's five stages of aging, which describe the shift from independence to end-of-life [1] - Neuroscience suggests that the prefrontal cortex, responsible for risk assessment and self-regulation, may decline with age, leading to behaviors similar to those seen in teenagers [1] The 3Ds: Defiance, Denial, and Decline - Defiance manifests as resistance to losing independence, such as refusing to give up driving, leading to conflicts over safety and control [1] - Denial serves as a defense mechanism against the uncomfortable truth of declining capabilities, with aging parents downplaying incidents like falls or health issues [1][2] - Decline involves physical, cognitive, and emotional changes that can be gradual or sudden, requiring significant caregiving efforts from adult children [3] Disempowerment and Control - Aging parents may experience disempowerment when they lose control over decisions and routines, leading to emotions like shame and anger [3][4] - Adult children, in their efforts to ensure safety, risk stripping away the autonomy of their parents, creating tension between control and freedom [4] Solutions and Support - The presentation introduces the PACE model (Pause, Assess, Choose, Embrace) as a tool for adult children to manage stress and respond with compassion [4] - It emphasizes the importance of normalizing the challenges of aging, building support systems, and having open conversations [10][11] Impact and Legacy - The journey of caring for aging parents shapes relationships with siblings and leaves a lasting impression on children, highlighting the importance of how one shows up during difficult times [7] - The presentation advocates for shifting the narrative around aging, creating language, tools, and supports to better navigate this life stage [11][13]

So, I've got some good news. Um, and I've got some bad news for you, I'm afraid. So, we'll start off with the good news because we like to stay as positive as we can here at TEDex.The good news is that you're all superheroes. Congratulations. Everyone's childhood dream has just come true.I've just done that for you now. Please be humble about it. Unfortunately, the bad news is that the superpowers that you've got aren't necessarily the superpowers that you might want.Now, you see, the superpowers that we al ...

Cancer Statistics and Impact - The National Cancer Institute estimates that 405% of US men and women will be diagnosed with cancer in their lifetime [3] - Approximately 2 million people in the United States will be diagnosed with cancer this year [11] - Cancer causes 600 thousand deaths annually in the United States [16] The Importance of Social Support - Married individuals facing a cancer diagnosis are less likely to die compared to unmarried individuals, according to the Journal of Clinical Oncology [24] - A Kaiser Permanente study revealed that isolated women with breast cancer have a 64% higher risk of mortality from the disease [24] - The American Cancer Society indicates that individuals with strong social support networks adapt better to cancer-related changes, maintain a more positive outlook, and report a higher quality of life [24] The Role of Connection and Relationships - Deep connections and relationships can significantly impact the lives of individuals facing cancer [25] - Social support and a commitment to feeling normal can extend the lives of cancer patients [25] - Connecting with individuals facing cancer empowers both the supporter and the supported to live more fully [26] Beyond Traditional Treatment - The treatment regimen for cancer extends beyond chemotherapy and radiation, encompassing the support and connection provided by others [27] - Simple connections and presence can improve hope and quality of life for those affected by cancer [28]