I'd like to begin with a few phrases that will probably sound familiar to the parents out there. Teach your kids to listen the first time. You can potty train your toddler in a weekend.If your kids don't listen the first time, it's because you don't mean it enough. And reward the good behavior, but ignore or punish the bad. These phrases are common.They're shared on Instagram, passed along in parenting groups, advised by family members, and even repeated in medical communities. They're packaged as common se ...

YEAH. YEAH. Right now, just listening to my son's cries, my heart rate spikes, my pupils dilate, stress hormones flood my body.This reaction is ancient because the very survival of our species has depended upon our ability to hear that cry, interpret it, and respond. When we do this well, babies thrive. But when we don't, the cost lasts a lifetime.I'm a developmental cognitive neuroscientist and a mom of two. So, I've seen in my lab and in my living room how early moments of connection set the blueprint for ...

RT Wesley Yang (@wesyang)Puberty is the decisive period of physical, social, emotional, and cognitive development. You cannot meddle with it without disrupting every dimension of a child's maturation. ...

[Music] gun. That's the word that I heard as I pulled into the parking lot of Grand Junction High School on a sunny fall afternoon to pick up my daughter. A young man had just shot himself in the parking lot just as I pulled in to pick her up.Anguish. That's what I felt. Heartbroken for that young man who was reportedly adored by all involved in so many activities and for his parents, for his friends, for all of the students that were going through that and for my daughter who also struggled with despair an ...

Core Concept: The Running Leap - The central idea is that children approach challenges like crossing a stream, needing to back up to gain momentum for a successful "running leap" [4][5] - This "backing up" isn't avoidance but a necessary phase for building confidence and preparing for bigger challenges [4][14] - Caregivers should recognize and support this process instead of forcing children into challenges they aren't ready for [10][29] Practical Application - When a child seems to be avoiding a challenge, observe how they are preparing themselves and support their process [10][28] - Acknowledge the child's process to build self-trust and provide them with a tool for future challenges [22][23] - Avoid forcing a child into a leap they aren't ready for, as it can lead to resentment, decreased confidence, and a need for even more extensive backing up [20][21] Intrinsic Motivation - Focus on fostering intrinsic motivation, trusting that children will return to the challenge when they feel ready [18][19] - Children are programmed to succeed and will come back to the challenge when they feel ready [11][19] - If a kid wants something, they'll never give up, no matter how long it takes [19]

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Observing the development of AI and many mid-curve takes on it slowing down or not being smart enough (or too expensive or too much energy or not enough chips or too many data centers, etc), I think it's helpful to use the mental model of child development.Imagine seeing a toddler trying to walk and drawing the conclusion that its legs are not made for working and it's too stupid to do this simple task.Until it just does it.Imagine waiting for your child's first words and suggesting that it's too stupid to ...

Today in South Africa just 36% of children live with their biological dads. Growing up without a father is associated with all sorts of bad outcomes https://t.co/qYq0a6IWzA ...

Child Development Concerns - Daycare may elevate salivary cortisol levels in children, potentially inducing stress during crucial brain development stages [1] - Studies suggest a correlation between daycare attendance and increased aggression, anxiety, and behavioral issues in school-aged children [1] - Daycare attendance might increase the likelihood of children developing attachment disorders [1] - Separating young children from primary caregivers and entrusting them to strangers for extended periods could lead to the development of pathological defenses [2]

Educational Philosophy & Child Development - The core of effective living lies in the opportunity to live one's own life, with successful individuals managing their lives stably without burdening others [1] - Children require space, opportunity, and time to practice and live life, contrary to the assumption that they will naturally learn to navigate life as they grow older [1] - The "stars in the eyes" of children represent the power of learning derived from the functioning of brain skills, specifically Executive Functions (EF) [1][2] - EF, or Executive Function, refers to the skills of the frontal lobe of the brain that drive efficient living, involving goal setting, self-regulation, and problem-solving [1] - The most effective approach involves guiding children through a 7-step ladder of success, with EF as the 6th step, preparing their brains for future learning [1] - Creating trust and strong relationships are crucial first steps, followed by developing self-concept (S) and self-esteem through physical activities [1] - Self-control, or focus, is essential for children to concentrate on tasks without distraction, enabling them to further develop other EF skills [1] Practical Application & Methodology - Sports can aid in developing EF skills, requiring focus, self-regulation, and evaluation during physical activities [1][2] - Finland's educational approach emphasizes early school dismissal (13:00-14:00) to allow children time for self-directed activities and independent commutes, fostering a sense of freedom and responsibility [1] - Play is a complex activity where children set goals, collaborate, negotiate, and adapt plans, mirroring real-life work scenarios and serving as a learning ground [1][4] - Integrating Korean Taekwondo content, Finnish learning approaches, and the 7-step EF development principles can enhance children's EF skills [1][5] - Taekwondo classes should foster trust, encourage self-expression, respect individuality, and allow students to choose learning goals, pace, and even test dates [1][5] - Project-based learning using Taekwondo techniques can transform classes into life skill practice fields, with teachers and students collaboratively refining techniques [1][5] - Experiential learning, such as camping trips, allows children to apply EF skills in real-life situations, fostering problem-solving and adaptability [1][5]