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现在的人,为什么活得这么苦?
3 6 Ke· 2025-06-27 10:26
Group 1 - The article discusses the increasing sense of suffering in life despite advancements in technology and quality of life, attributing this to the complexities of social relationships and internal conflicts [1][2] - It emphasizes the importance of awakening both paternal and maternal powers within individuals to overcome these challenges [1][2] Group 2 - Paternal power is defined as the ability to see the truth of life clearly and make choices aligned with one's inner self, contrasting with the external projections of strength often associated with masculinity [3][4][11] - The article highlights the significance of self-acceptance and the dangers of low self-worth, particularly among the youth, who may feel a collective sense of meaninglessness [7][8][9] Group 3 - The text outlines methods for cultivating paternal power, including mindfulness and self-reflection, which can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and one's emotions [12][20] - It discusses the transformative potential of love and forgiveness, even towards those who have caused harm, as a means of personal growth [13][14][15] Group 4 - The article addresses the lack of trust in relationships, particularly among men, and how this can lead to superficial connections and misunderstandings [25][26] - It emphasizes the role of maternal power in fostering unconditional love and trust, which is essential for healthy relationships [27][30] Group 5 - The discussion extends to the impact of societal expectations and pressures on individual identity and self-worth, particularly in the context of familial relationships [52][53] - It critiques the obsession with power and control, suggesting that true strength lies in self-awareness and the ability to choose love and connection over dominance [55][56] Group 6 - The article concludes with insights on entrepreneurship, advocating for a survivor mindset and the importance of building genuine relationships in business [58][64] - It posits that true success in entrepreneurship comes from a commitment to creating value and beauty in the world, rather than merely pursuing power [70][71]
创业折腾,对富人和穷人的意义很不一样
创业家· 2025-06-09 09:54
吴世春 梅花创投合伙人、黑马加速导师 我最近主要做的事情主要是: "帮不顺的创业者破局,帮有结果的创业者上岸,自己也在持续做投资IP" 。 下面是最近的一些新感悟: 一、不要追求绝对安全感 要通过布局获得相对安全即可,保持危机感,保持警觉状态。获得绝对安全付出的代价太高, 而且绝对安全使人失去警惕性。 二、做一个斯多葛主义者 古希腊的斯多葛派每天都要做日课。一个人做最坏的假设,让自己每个时刻要有多个选择,选 择最好的那个。 只向内求,每天做好最坏假设下的预案,保留底线思维,不下牌桌靠的是不all in 掉所有筹 码。 三、建立自己适合的回血机制 精神状态上、身体机制上、财务上都需要有这样的回血机制。比如达芬奇睡眠法,碎片化回血 能力很重要。人的很多机制如同弹簧一样,拉伸一旦超出极限,会产生不可逆的损害。 四、成为社会网络关键节点 在编织自己有影响力的网络中需要付出、需要布施,布施有很多种:财布施,法布施,能量布 施。节点之所以关键是在那个位置燃烧自己,照亮周围节点。 五、把自己的价值观变成概念输出 如果你能打造独具个人特色的概念,会更有辨识度和做好自己。对外能输出价值观更容易打造 有魅力的人设品牌。 六、带着 ...