Group 1 - The core idea of the article emphasizes the concept of maturity, which is defined by the ability to manage emotions, bear responsibilities, and let go of past grievances [4][59]. - Emotional regulation is highlighted as a key indicator of mental maturity, with examples illustrating how successful individuals conceal their emotions to maintain composure in challenging situations [8][17]. - The article discusses the importance of resilience and endurance in life, suggesting that true talent lies in the ability to withstand difficulties and setbacks [30][36]. Group 2 - The narrative includes a story about a high school student who, after facing unexpected challenges, succumbed to despair, illustrating the consequences of being unprepared for life's adversities [27][28]. - The article references historical figures like Liu Bei, who, despite numerous failures and hardships, ultimately achieved significant success, reinforcing the idea that perseverance is crucial [34][36]. - It emphasizes that life is a marathon where endurance is more important than speed, and one must learn to rise after falling to reach their goals [36][38]. Group 3 - The article discusses the necessity of letting go of past pains and grievances, comparing individuals to smartphones that need regular maintenance to function optimally [39][40]. - A story is shared about a man who, after being wrongfully imprisoned, could not move on from his past, highlighting the detrimental effects of holding onto resentment [41][44]. - The importance of forgiveness and moving forward is underscored, with examples of individuals who achieved greatness by releasing their burdens and focusing on the future [52][54].

很多老板和我聊天时，我都有一个明显的感受： 大家都很焦虑。躺又躺不平，卷又卷不赢，感觉快要扛不下去了。 的确，生存的压力，工作中的挫折，对未来的迷茫，甚至恐惧，压得让人几乎透不过气来。 无数次遇到困难、痛苦、压力的时候，你可能都想放弃了。 但是，我想告诉你，你扛得住，就是本事，扛过去，你就赢了。 具体该如何理解呢？有以下3点： 01 担得起责 在职场上，负责是一个人可贵的品质。担得起责往往体现在以下两个方面： ①对你的态度负责。 有人曾问过股神巴菲特："您最看重的是一个人的什么品质？" 巴菲特回答说："态度，尤其是工作的态度。" 有些人并不缺乏工作的能力，但他们缺乏主动做事的态度，遇到一些大事、难事，他就退缩了，只会找 借口逃避。 实际上，绝大部分的能力问题，都是态度问题。 遇事时，如果你还没做，就是"不能"的态度，不愿尝试，不敢去做，那你就一定做不成这件事。 ②对你的行为负责。 无论事情你做成什么样子，你都要承担相应的后果，不要推卸责任。 有些人是很不负责的，取得成绩时照镜子，把功劳归于自己，洋洋得意；遇到困难时看窗口，找人甩 锅。 而真正扛得起责的人，当取得成绩时，他们会看向窗口，把工作成果归功于他人，不 ...