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Core Viewpoint - The future of education requires a better balance between academic performance and personal growth, knowledge and life experiences, ultimately helping students discover their own brilliance and making growth a journey of learning responsibility and care [1][3][4] Group 1: Emotional and Humanistic Aspects of Education - Education is not just about knowledge transfer but also about emotional nourishment, character shaping, and life care, as exemplified by the heartfelt speech of a cafeteria worker at a graduation ceremony [2][3] - The presence of ordinary individuals like cafeteria workers on stage during graduation highlights the humanistic warmth of society and serves as a value demonstration for students [3] Group 2: The Role of Care and Responsibility in Education - Genuine education should create a complete cycle of love, where students feel cared for and are guided to love others and be willing to give [3] - Students growing in a caring environment are more likely to become confident and warm individuals, emphasizing the importance of kindness as a foundation for happiness [3][4] Group 3: The Importance of Ordinary Guardians - The recognition of ordinary guardians, such as cafeteria workers, during graduation ceremonies serves to awaken students' appreciation for the value of the ordinary and the contributions of those who work behind the scenes [3] - The essence of education lies in the reminders from these ordinary figures, encouraging students to carry warmth and kindness into the world [4]